Kayla W. / “Even though it may seem like a tough time…keep going no matter what.”
After four years in the foster care system, Kayla is building a life of her own rooted in stability, support, faith, and possibility.
When asked what her younger self would be proud of, Kayla shared:
“I am in a stable household with a great support system and breaking the cycle.”
That sense of stability and community has helped shape the person Kayla is becoming. Surrounded by friends who have encouraged and guided her along the way, Kayla recognizes the power of having people in your corner.
“I have my friends who have helped me every step of the way in helping me become who I am. I look up to them and they have guided me in the right direction.”
Today, Kayla is focused on building a future in healthcare. She shares, “Right now I am going to school, to become a medical assistant and I'm passing!” She is also working toward “a better connection towards god” while continuing to build the life she envisions for herself. And her dreams don't stop there!
Over the next five years, Kayla hopes to begin a career as a medical assistant, earn her CNA degree and phlebotomy license, and begin nursing school. Ultimately, her goals reach even further: “My goals in life are to graduate with my degree, and start my own urgent care and assisted living!”
Kayla's journey has also given her a clear perspective on what young people need when transitioning out of foster care. “I think I needed mostly any type of support and financial education,” she said. “It's very important once we age out to know how to budget and be financially stable.”
She hopes to see a foster care system where older youth and teenagers have stronger communities surrounding them.
“I would like to see more events and community programs,” Kayla shared. “I also think it would be good for older kids/ teenagers to have a good support team and/or mentor on their side.”
For Kayla, consistent connection and community can make all the difference. “It makes me feel like I have good support on my side.” She also hopes the general public will look beyond assumptions.
“Be open to learning about foster care and who foster kids are as people and not just the foster care label.”
And for young people currently navigating foster care, Kayla offers this encouragement:
“Even though it may seem like a tough time, and you don't see the bigger picture, keep going no matter what. The more you push yourself to be better, the better future you will have for yourself.”
Kayla's story is still being written. But already, it is a story of resilience, growth, and the courage to imagine something more. Because Kayla is greater than the labels placed on her, and greater than the circumstances she came from. She is continuing to build a future defined not by where she started but by where she is going.
Like Kayla, you can use your voice to tell your story and help others understand the foster care experience. Share your story here.
